你在成功人士身上看不到的10种行为 – 10 Behaviors You Never See in Successful People

1. 天真 – Naivety

当然，初入社会的我们一开始都有点容易上当和『天真』，但你越快将其转化为精明和思量精神，你就越有可能成为领头人物。原因很简单：笨蛋和傻瓜不会赢。

学会质疑及思考你所读所看所听的一切，并经常思考消息来源及出处。

Granted, we all start out sort of wide-eyed and gullible, but the sooner you convert that to savvy and skeptical, the better your chances of coming out on top. The reason is simple: suckers and fools don’t win. Learn to question everything you read and hear and always consider the source.

2. 恐慌 – Panic / Nervous

高压情况在商界很常见。事情几乎从来没有按计划进行，而且经常会出大差错。如果你不能克服在面对高压时仍能平稳处事，并在在危机中保持冷静，那你就有点完蛋了。

High-pressure situations are common in the business world. Things almost never go according to plan and oftentimes they go terribly wrong. It comes with the territory. If you can’t override your adrenaline response and remain calm in a crisis, you’re sort of screwed.

3. 狂热 – Fanaticism

激情是驱使你走向成功的原动力，但当你越过这条线，变得过分狂热，这将对你造成不理。它会是你对现实出现偏见、并往往会做出错误的推理和糟糕的决策。

Passion is a big success driver, but when you cross that line and become over-the-top fanatical, that works against you. I’ve seen it time and again. It leads to a skewed perception of reality, flawed reasoning, and bad decision-making.  

4. 懒惰 – Laziness

那些取得伟大成就的人都有一个基本真理：成功需要长期努力。这就是为什么他们总是那么专注和有纪律。大多数人都是懒汉。这就是为什么大多数人不能取得伟大的成就。就这么简单。

Those who are driven to achieve great things also know one fundamental truth: It takes hard work over the long haul. That’s why they’re always so focused and disciplined. Most people are slackers. That’s why most people don’t achieve great things. Simple as that.

5. 急功近利的心态 – Quick Fix Mentality

Steve Jobs说：“成功的企业家和不成功的企业家之间的区别，有一半是来自于对毅力和坚持的态度”，如果你对自己所做的事情没有激情，你就不会坚持下去。现在有太多的人有着急功近利的心态，如此一来很难持之以恒达成目标。

Steve Jobs said, “Half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance” and if you’re not passionate about what you do, you won’t stick with it. Too many people want instant gratification these days. That’s not going to cut it.

6. 轻易宣泄情绪 – Acting Out

不管你有什么难以处理的感觉——嫉妒、羞耻、自卑、愤怒——若把它们宣泄到身边人身上，不仅会让你和你周围的人痛苦，还会毁了你的事业。

Whatever feelings you have trouble dealing with – jealousy, shame, inferiority, entitlement – transferring them to people you work with and acting out in anger won’t just make you and everyone around you miserable, it’ll kill your career, too. 

7. 自私 – Selfishness

过于以自我为中心会降低你的工作效率。生意不是为了你，而是为了生意和收益，是关于你的客户对你产品的体验。一定要记住在这段关系中，是谁在为谁服务。

If you act like the world revolves around you, you’d better have the talent to back it up. Even so, being overly self-centered will diminish your effectiveness. Business isn’t about you; it’s about business. It’s about your customers’ experience with your products. Remember who serves whom in the relationship.

8. 生活在过去或将来 – Living in the past or future. Granted

我们可以从过去学习，但沉湎于过去是自毁的。同样地，你可以计划和梦想未来，但如果你的行动不集中在现在，你将永远无法实现你的计划或梦想。

We can learn from the past, but dwelling on it is self-destructive. Likewise, you can plan for and dream about the future, but if your actions aren’t focused on the present, you’ll never achieve your plans or your dreams.

9. 事不关己 – Lighthearted indifference

你也许经常听到像“什么都好”、“一切都好”和“不用担心”之类的短语，但你很少会从有成就的人那里听到。成功的人也许很会『找事情』，但总比对什么事情都漠不关心及事不关己来的有效率。

You hear phrases like “whatever works,” “it’s all good,” and “no worries” a lot lately but you’ll rarely hear them from highly accomplished people. They may be a lot of things but apathetic is not one of them.

10. 过敏 – Oversensitivity

如果你脸皮太薄，任何批评都会让你发疯，任何小事都会让你觉得冒犯，那么在现实的商业世界里，你会经历一段艰难的日子。成功的领袖通常有幽默感和谦逊，这是一个很好的态度，这是一种要求。别把自己太当回事。

If you’re so thin-skinned that any criticism makes you crazy and every little thing offends you, you’re going to have a rough go of it in the real business world. There’s a good reason why business leaders usually have a good sense of humor and humility. It’s sort of a requirement. Don’t take yourself so seriously.

最后一件事。如果这其中任何一个冒犯到你想要写一个愤怒的评论来反驳，我想你心中至少有两三个问题要处理。换个角度想，至少你不是无动于衷，还是有机会成为成功的人！

One last thing. If any of this offends you enough to want to write an angry flame comment, you’ve got at least two or three issues to work on. Then again, look at the bright side. At least you’re not indifferent.

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